when you [plural] love them

when we (but not you) love them

when we (you and I) love them

when they love you [plural]

when they love us (you and me)

when they love us (but not you)

when you [plural] show them

when we (but not you) show them

when we (you and I) show them

when they show you [plural]

when they show us (you and me)

when they show us (but not you)