when you [plural] love her/him

when we (but not you) love her/him

when we (you and I) love her/him

when s/he loves you [plural]

when s/he loves us (you and me)

when s/he loves us (but not you)

when you [plural] show her/him

when we (but not you) show her/him

when we (you and I) show her/him

when s/he shows you [plural]

when s/he show us (you and me)

when s/he shows us (but not you)