when they love him/her/them [obviative]

when s/he loves him/her/them [obviative]

when s/he or they [obviative] love them

when s/he or they [obviative] love him/her

when they show him/her/them [obviative]

when s/he shows him/her/them [obviative]

when s/he or they [obviative] show them

when s/he or they [obviative] show him/her

when s/he or they [obviative] go around them

when s/he or they [obviative] go around her/him

when they go around him/her/them [obviative]

when s/he goes around him/her/them [obviative]